Monday, October 09, 2006
Ok....we have a mini debate going on here...but I guess there should be an end to this.
It is good that Hoe Seng brought up the reasons why he is not very happy with the class, so that we know some of our weaknesses and can correct them if we deem neccessary. And that Andie clarified a few matters with him in the other entry...
The intro was done by hoe seng, body by andie, and now I will do the evaluation and conclusion...hopefully this way everyone turns out to be happier la.
Hoe Seng has agreed to pay what he owes the class, so I will pay on behalf of him first, and he will give me the balance on Fri. So the class fund issue is now settled, everyone should be happy and not give each other "faces" again.
Secondly, lets face it. Everyone has his or her weaknesses. Like Andie said, we should always look on the brighter side of things. Take this as a learning opportunity. Instead of disliking ho seng even more for what he said, just take it like a comment from an honest friend. He may have put it across very bluntly, but that is his style, so just accept it.
And regarding any retaliations/with-holding of notes/conflicts, come on, we are all grown ups, all 18 already. So why let a small issue allow you to expose the ugly side of yourself? By not retaliating, Andie has won the WAR, cause he has shown that he is matured, thinking person. So kudos to him.
What we don't want now is an internal conflict brewing. That is the last thing that should cross everyone's mind. If you still have not gotten my message, it is
FORGIVE, ACCEPT, AND GET ON WITH LIFE.On a happier note, I look forward to this friday whereby everyone can enjoy our lunch/brunch together as a class. :)
I emphasize, EVERYONE PLEASE TURN UP!!!
- Yick Loong
dived at 10/09/2006 11:03:00 PM.